just so confused.

somtimes things can be misunderstood, confused or taken the wrong way . but i dont unerstand how a smal problem can become such a big situation. In an argument there is always two stories, two sides, two point of views - that i have learnt. so then maybe im in the wrong? maybe my actions are the ones to blame? prehaps the things i know arent enough to solve problems or accuse others? i dont know. noone knows and the answer wont be found until the problem is resolved. =/ but how is the problem resolved? how when its hell to be around the person. how when all aims of commumication is refused. how when all there is, is just hate and no hope.? noone wants to be the one to approach first, is that becasue noone beleieves that they are a hundred percent correct? because if there is a person who is, they would have nothing to lose. why dont i approach ? =S is it i know im wrong in ways? yeah. i know im not perfect in this situation. so why am i acting as though i am ? i dont know. when your angry you bottle up your emotions and any little peice of evdence that you can reach out to grab to suport your argument is taken and used. you dont wait to justify if its even true or false, right or wrong? you just fire what is inside of you. maybe ive fired too much for my own good and now things have come to a pause. it just sucks when things arent a fairytale doesnt it? and once upon a time there was a fairytale. now things are just fcked up. but if anything, im eager to solve things. i hate, hate. and i love, love. whats so bad about solving things anyway? is it realising you might be wrong? because if realising your wrong and learning from your mistakes can be sacrifced to patch this up even a notch then whats so bad?